tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post1067486795901256565..comments2023-10-08T12:58:58.926+01:00Comments on LILY OLIVIA: Why You Should Always Be You.Lily Oliviahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09260006142499691667noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-34101043684658897652016-04-28T14:39:36.887+01:002016-04-28T14:39:36.887+01:00Aww thank you so much, that truly means a lot to m...Aww thank you so much, that truly means a lot to me!! I always try to be as honest as possible on my little corner of the Internet! <3 xxxLily Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09260006142499691667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-83303377107097009442016-04-28T03:39:04.320+01:002016-04-28T03:39:04.320+01:00I love how open and honest you are with your reade...I love how open and honest you are with your readers, Lily! Your blog is a true joy to read <3<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Edye | Http://gracefulcoffee.wordpress.comEdye Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15990939471027484238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-66867618566728726192016-04-26T07:41:23.181+01:002016-04-26T07:41:23.181+01:00I know what you mean but the thing is, right now a...I know what you mean but the thing is, right now all my friends are at uni so I hardly see them anyway. I'd tell my work colleagues except they're all like 30+ and probably don't really understand blogging!! My family all know and right now that's enough I think :) xxLily Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09260006142499691667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-38404710587585610972016-04-26T03:21:05.432+01:002016-04-26T03:21:05.432+01:00I can really relate to what you were saying about ...I can really relate to what you were saying about having social anxiety, and I agree that it's a bit hypocritical how we're always told to be ourselves but then when we are, people can call you weird etc. <br /><br />I think it's great that you want to be a better version of yourself for uni, but I'd say don't wait! Just go for it and start making changes right now, that way by the time you get to uni you'll already feel so much more comfortable with yourself and yourself in social situations :) <br /><br />Just take that advice with a grain of salt though, do whatever works for you! <br /><br />www.thesundaymode.blogspot.com.auThe Sunday Modehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15259988466018000745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-89058734163810860192016-04-25T19:24:35.584+01:002016-04-25T19:24:35.584+01:00Oh my god the brand thing hahaha I literally have ...Oh my god the brand thing hahaha I literally have had those thoughts so many times! The idea of my friends finding my blog or even putting it on my personal twitter / Facebook... NO. <br />And I totally agree with you when it comes to sounding stupid in front of people. I've definitely been in the situation (or at least seen others in it) when I'd say something and then all I'd get would be judgemental looks or someone going 'okaaaayyyy' and it just makes you feel the worst!<br />I'm so glad I'm not the only one with these fears haha xxxx Lily Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09260006142499691667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197416860495107363.post-2863687470650477682016-04-25T17:36:52.853+01:002016-04-25T17:36:52.853+01:00I know we always joke that may just be secretly tw...I know we always joke that may just be secretly twins and we are basically the same person in A LOT of things, but this is honestly like music to my ears. I'm no just saying this, but I have had serious (well I don't want to call it social anxiety but) problems with what people think of me, even with people I would kind of call friends when I was in school, even if I said something stupid I would be thinking 'omg Lisa why did you say that?' - With blogging, im even scared my blog will grow even slightly, even to the point were if ive tagged a brand in a post and they retweet it, someone I know will see that and find my blog - does that makes sense? I don't even know were this has spirled from, but ive FOREVER been a shy person, im a lot lot better but oh god, don't get me started on talking to boys, now *that* is a form of social anxiety, I remember being im a massive group of friends in school and this boys was just like 'hi you ok?' (Because id had a chat with him drunk at a house party haha) and i was sweating and stuttering and thinking that he thinks im weird, and I just wanted to go home haha. Basically, I completely and utterly can relate to this because im exactly the same, online yes I can be chatty (especially with you!!) but with new people in person I find it so difficult to be awkward and myself with this contant fear of being judged.. ok sorry this is kind of one big sentence and makes next to no sense but just now you aren't alone with the feeling of being judged, its horrible xxxxLisa | The Low Waste Weeklyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10991999664780762635noreply@blogger.com